Social Networks

The thought of having a radio show addressing how to unplug from the digital information overload may be one of those topics beginning to surface that we may want to pay attention to and begin to address.

The Internet is an intricate part of children's social life, and there is no changing that. As parents or guardians, we must be aware of how our children are using the Internet and make sure it is done responsibly. That means as parents it is our responsibility to empower children with the knowledge and skills necessary to enjoy the Internet safely. Moreover, parents have the gift of experience and wisdom, which can be shared through personal one-on-one communication…A factor that trumps online social network communications.

Here is an example of what a thirteen (13) year old began as a social network site: http://www.aandolan.org Not all social network sites have to be about chatting with friends. Social network sites can serve a purpose and function to help better a cause for others in need. Social networks sites can develop from specific interests among your friends and expand out to include a wider group, whose purpose is to collectively enhance the interest of your group.

When filling out personal information about yourself, remember being vague or creating, a fictitious name is not being dishonest. It means you are being smart and careful until you feel comfortable sharing that information.

Stop and think about the information you are posting about yourself. Essentially, this means that instead of focusing on what you should put in your online profile, you should be focusing on what to exclude.

Online social networking is a phenomenon that has drastically changed the landscape of how people connect and socialize with each other. This new media allows a foundation in which society reacts to new ideas through the viewpoints and opinions of others: sharing ideas and stories, which ultimately joins us with a common interest, which forms a bond and develops relationships, with others sharing a common interest, which would never, had been possible without the Internet.

Try to keep a common sense perspective when socializing on the Internet. Maintain a sense of anonymity and keep your personal life private. When in doubt ask your parent or a trusted adult.

Do not try to stop your child from accessing the digital age and do not just introduce them and leave them to fend for themselves. Not being active in their online activities is being irresponsible. Moderation is a good lesson - however, parents could use a bit less moderation and get involved more with their kid's online and offline world.

Parents need to check their child's online profiles and be a friend…Hey parents observe, don't bother participating...Your child will appreciate you not writing on his or her wall.